Generally, most parents are so strict with their children when they were growing up. Have your strict mother ever order you to tidy your room or ask you to do your assignment and concentrate on your future daily. Almost all of us have grown up in families where strict mothers who usually make life very difficult for us at times. The continuous nagging and trying to correct you every time is usually difficult to bear, but according to one specialist, mothers that are strict usually have more children that are successful. Although it will be difficult then, you will surely end up thanking your mother for the way she has trained you.
According to Erica Rascon, a professor from the University of Essex conducted a research which proved that strict mothers have the most successful children and that a lot of successful people had mothers which are extremely demanding from their children. The study analyzed surveys of about 15 000 children aged ranges from 13-14 around 2004 and 2010. Rascon also stated that “the measure of the expectations in this research replicate a combination of beliefs and hope about the likelihood of access to higher education which is declared by most parents, and most cases the mother”.
The children whose mothers usually had great expectations feel more secure and confident. As a result of the research showed that female children who had nagging and relentless mothers have about 4% lesser chances of getting impregnated at a tender age. Children who mainly had strict mothers were also more likely to complete their college and secure a good job. It may look impracticable, but high demanding and persistent mothers usually have more successful children. In most cases, we derived success in doing what they believe to be more suitable for us, even when it go against our parents. Rascon also stated that “no matter how much we try to ignore our parents, any of their advice usually influence us, although we may be smart in the decisions we take, but we believe that they are usually personal”.
In general, a lot of children usually consider their strict mothers as their real enemy while growing up, but we promise you that this will help you later in the future. She could make life look unbearable for you sometimes, but you will surely end up giving thanks to your mother when you might have grown-up. You will always appreciate and identify all the efforts she gave to you so as to train you right, and you will try and use the same approach for your children.
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Source: Family Health Freedom Network